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people regard bondage as safe when conducted between sober, trusted partners
who are fully aware of the risks involved and the precautions necessary
to ensure safety. Partners who are in committed relationships may have a
greater basis for trusting each other. Performing acts in a supervised location,
such as a dungeon, or with a group of trusted friends may also increase
safety.
There is also a subculture of people who seek out others interested in bondage and pursue such activities with people who they do not know well. This subculture has given rise to the safe, sane and consensual credo. Safety precautions include: The use of a "safeword", or some clear way for the subject to indicate genuine distress and a wish to abort. Never leaving a bound person alone. Avoiding positions or restraints which may induce postural asphyxia. Making sure that the subject changes positions at least once an hour (to avoid circulation problems). Making sure that the subject can be released quickly in an emergency. Avoiding restraints which impair breathing. (Gags or hoods which block the mouth can become asphyxial hazards if the subject vomits or the nose becomes otherwise blocked.) Remaining sober; alcohol and drugs should be avoided. One very simple safety measure is to ask the subject every so often if he or she is all right. Another is to check body parts like hands and feet for numbness or coldness, which can happen if nerves have been pinched or blood circulation has been blocked. Another is to check for skin discoloration. Skin that does not get enough oxygen turns bluish. If blood can get in, but can't get out because one of the veins has been blocked, that part of the body turns purple. If the subject has been gagged or can otherwise not verbally communicate, a different form of the safeword is needed. For instance, they may hum a simple tune, or an object in one hand (typically a ball) can be released. Some simple preparations may also be helpful: Food. It is surprisingly common for people (especially those on diets) to faint during a long session. Having a regular meal beforehand is recommended; being fed small snacks during play may also help avoid fainting. Cutting tools. A pair of EMT scissors—useful for safely cutting rope and tape off skin—is recommended. Keyed-alike padlocks, if chains are being used. It should be noted that scenes depicted in bondage photographs and videos are chosen for their visual appeal and fantasy value. In most cases they cannot be "acted out" with good results. Self-bondage carries a higher risk, particularly because it violates the first principle of bondage safety: to never leave a bound person alone. Without someone to release them in the event of an emergency or medical crisis, self-bondage can be lethal to its practitioners. It has been estimated in the medical literature there are around 500-1000 deaths every year in the United States due to autoerotic asphyxia (self-strangulation) alone. |
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