Bondage

First Timers - Checking your partners interest...

Please be sure to read the Safety First page before proceeding.

This may not be relevent to everyone, some people are very outgoing and out spoken about their interest in bondage. I will assume that you have spoken and your partner has agreed to at least give things a try.

Thought I refer to the top as male, and the bottom as female, it can, and frequently does occur the opposite way. (as is my case)

You will need one pair of stockings for this. Have your bottom lie down on the bed. Using the stockings, tie together her hands in front of her using a crossed technique (not too tight). Besure to leave some length for later use. At this point since this is her first time, it is not wise to break out the whip or nipple clips. Let her explore her restriction in motion.caresses her, kiss her, touch her skin. If things seem to be progressing well use the extra length to attach to the head rail of the bed, further restricting her motion. She may panic at this point, keep in touch with her, stop before it becomes a bad experience. If all is well, continue stimulation, reward her with an orgasm via manual stimulation or a vibrator if you already have one. Immediately Untie her, do not wait for her to ask to be untied.

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